Project managers are doers and helpers. They want to get things done on target, on time, and on budget, with no excuses. And part of that project manager personality is to provide advice at all times—heck, that’s what I’m doing on the project management blog, isn’t it?
But sometimes, project managers give each other bad advice—and that advice enters the project management world as an absolute, leaving no room for nuance.
In other words, there are definitely project management taboos. And you should be breaking them.
I’ve isolated three project management taboos that are common in PM discussions and intend to knock them down—hard. Read on to learn what common knowledge is absolutely wrong, and what you should be doing instead.
1. Your stakeholders have the final say on delegation and project direction.
Project managers make mistakes with their stakeholders all the time. But to thus conclude that stakeholders should always have the final say on how a project is directed is nothing but false.
You are the manager. You have full control over your process.
The temptation here is that you should be consistently in communication with your stakeholders about how they would like their project completed. The reality is that they only determine the what and you, as the project manager, have better experience and training on how to complete a project on time.
Challenge the status quo. And don’t be afraid to ask your stakeholders to let you do your job.
2. Shift all of your focus to teamwork, collaboration, and communication.
“Collaboration” seems to be the buzzword du jour in project management. For example, when shopping for project management software, most people look for file sharing (51%), time tracking (50%), and email integration (48%) above all else. In fact, our project management research shows that software buyers notice the biggest improvement in team communication above all other benefits the software provides.
In other words, collaboration and communication are certainly essential to a successful project team.
But that’s not all there is to reaching a final deliverable. According to the blog Project Management 101, there is such a thing as a manager that is too sensitive to the needs of their team members. Lewsauder writes that these managers are unfortunately popular, and that their team members will say things like, “He’s such a great manager. He never gets on our case to get our stuff done. He’s not one of those managers that’s [sic] always just focused on the deadline.”
Project management does require constant communication and teamwork—but it also requires being the enforcer, even if it makes you the bad guy.
Sometimes you have to be firm.
Sometimes you have to enforce the deadline, even if that means ignoring a team member’s extenuating circumstances.
And yes, doing so has the potential of affecting team collaboration. But sometimes that has to go on the backburner to get things done, now and in the future.
3. You should always play by the rules.
I’m not recommending that you should run around burning things in your office and beating the life out of your office printer.
Yes, methods are important to learning how to manage people. And templates tend to provide good guidelines on how to handle certain situations.
But it’s the lazy project manager who exclusively relies on these tools. Project management requires dynamic thinking, creativity, and flexibility.
If you’re over-relying on a process made by other people, you lose the opportunity to create and execute a system that is best for your workplace and your projects. Being strict about methodology can not only be irritating to stakeholders and your team, but also damaging to the final deliverable itself.
There are a whole lot more project management taboos that I’m sure aren’t included here. Should we always hold status meetings? Should we always be in charge of project communication? Maybe not.
I’m interested in your thoughts. Do you think that these project management taboos are taboo for a reason? Are there taboos that I missed? Am I missing the nuance in these lessons?
Leave your insights in the comments below!
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